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Date: Monday, May 20th, 2013 12:35 am (UTC)In the book, I found her dianic neopaganism a bit preachy at times I did enjoy the bit about the inner goddess and sex-as-giving to someone who needs intimacy and emotional connection rather than has sexual gratification. It's a concept that rings so true and I wish it were more common in literature.
Sex used to disturb me a lot growing up because I came to view it as an act of physical contact perpetrated by an active, dominant, controlling man to a passive, permissive, submissive woman not giving her consent. When I first encountered sex as something shared and enjoyed (somewhere in MZB's oeuvre, I believe) I was deeply intrigued, and I think this book would have been excellent for me at that age.
Most of my books are also still at my parents' place. My room is a storage/guest room and the books aren't bothering anyone, though there is still over a meter of books that I haven't gotten round to even over there and I'm not sure I ever will.
Hopefully I'll have a library room at some point. :D